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When I like A Woman, I Become A Total Simp - Fatboy

RX Radio Presenter James Onen aka Fatboy has said that when he gets a soft spot for a lady, he becomes too easy to exploit.

The presenter made the revelations during the Fatboy show as he and his Co-host Lesham were discussing the different kinds of male personalities.

By identification of these, Fatboy named them as Alpha, Beta and Zeta. He described Alpha males as being attractive and confident, making them gain a lot of intimate privileges. The Beta males he said are easy to exploit because they tend to be ‘yes men’ trying to please their women in every possible way.

However, because the personalities interchange in most people, Fatboy said he would become a Beta whenever he engaged with a woman who touched his heart.

“When I like a lady, I tend to become a Beta male and a total simp, but because this makes me vulnerable to exploitation, I decided to adopt a more Zeta personality.” Fatboy said.

And as for the Zeta, Fatboy went on to explain, these are the ‘I don’t care’ type who prefer doing what pleases them regardless of what society norms demand.

“I’d also describe myself as a Zeta male because I'm a man that doesn’t like to live by society stereotypes, but rather the way I want to regardless of whether it makes society happy or not,” he declared.

Lesham, on the other hand, when asked about her favourite male personality said that she experienced the Alphas and Betas but eventually opted for a Zeta.

“I think I have a Zeta now because we are more outrightly the same. I don’t like the insanely over-romantic Beta attention because when we are in a relationship, I want to know that your thoughts are original and not exaggerated,” she explained.

Fatboy encouraged that understanding personalities should not be seen as a hurdle in relationships but rather be used for self-discovery and better decision making.

The Fatboy show is hosted by James Onen aka Fatboy and Lesham every weekday from 6am to 10am on RX Radio

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