Although a lot of couples are familiar with the subject of faking orgasms, a few are willing to talk things out, especially women who feel that they might break their men’s egos in the process.
Such was the situation for the famous DJ Envy’s wife Gia Casey, who confessed to having faked orgasms for 10 years in their nearly 30 years relationship during an interview with The Shade Room. Gia said that she did fake orgasms so as not to hurt the feelings of her husband. Eventually he got to find out during an argument the couple had.
On The Fatboy Show today, James Onen aka Fatboy queried whether it should be a man’s responsibility to get a woman to their sexual peaks wondering if it shouldn’t be a personal obligation of each of the partners to know what they want out of the situation.
“When you're in an intimate situation with a lady, as far as you're concerned is having your fun, release and you wanna relax. So should men even care that women have arrived and enjoyed themselves? Isn't that her problem, why make it our problem?” Fatboy asked Daniel Omara, his show co-host.
“If you’re the guy, you’ve taken her out, spent money, bought drinks, bought her gifts, you’re the man and surely, you’ve done your part to please her already. So in a bedtime situation, isn’t it time for her to pay her dues and so you shouldn’t mind whether or not she is feeling any pleasure,” Fatboy added.
In agreement he said that as a man, he got to understand that foreplay begins in the bank with the man spending to please their catch. By the time the couple decides to get intimate, he said the least women could do is finish.
But he also opined that even though a woman’s sexual satisfaction is supposed to be their responsibility, eventually, it would still affect the relationship where the woman will be concerned about why the man can’t do anything to solve the mystery.
As a piece of advice, Daniel asked DJ Envy not to listen to the background noise and all noise in general. “Listen to the breathing patterns, it's very hard to fake breathing. She can fake the walala, wowe, mama nyabo, but no, she doesn't fake the breathing. That breathing is a reflection of your system working.
The Fatboy show is hosted by James Onen aka Fatboy, Olive and Sarah every weekday from 6am to 10am on RX Radio.