RX Radio Presenter James Onen aka Fatboy has argued that all women cheat but in different ways.
During The Fatboy Show with co-host Lesham, he revealed that women always cheat but unlike men, they do so to get over people in their current relationships. “When a woman finds herself attracted to somebody else and the person is showing serious signs of wanting to be in a relationship with her, there will be a period of time where despite being in a relationship, she will be gauging the new guy.”
Fatboy added, “The more times she meets up with this person, she will get emotionally attached and intimacy will eventually occur. Now this will be the time she decides to dissolve their previous relationship by starting up random arguments to deliberately sabotage this relationship because she doesn’t want to feel guilty of her actions for getting into the new one.”
Fatboy went on to say how after an argument and deciding to take a break, a man may think his girlfriend will need about two weeks to a month to think about her priorities and thereafter return to the relationship yet on the contrary, she will already be with her new guy who she has probably been spending time with for a while.
“For many women, this is what happens in their relationships yet they don’t count it as cheating but consider it as something that was going to end anyway.”
Lesham, curious about the conversation, asked Fatboy whether the situation had ever happened to him personally, to which he conceded, saying that every time he had been dumped, this was the way it always happened.
However, she objected to having ever found herself in this state through one trick- refraining from relationships. “I was very smart because I cheated the whole system instead of cheating with one person. I was like I’m not supposed to be responsible for someone’s feelings, so because there was no title to it, I wouldn’t be held to any expectations,” she said.
Furthermore, Lesham revealed that in her research, it was an unrealistic expectation for humans to be sexually monogamous given that for other species and mammals in particular are less than 5% monogamous, adding that humans may just be aiming for higher standards yet it’s natural.
The Fatboy show is hosted by James Onen aka Fatboy, Olive, Sarah and Lesham every weekday from 6am to 10am on RX Radio.